Having Fun But Not At The Expense Of Others

Well this is a topic that i was thinking of sharing my thoughts for a long time now.It was first brought to my attention by a good friend Meenakshi long time back in my slambook when we were about to leave school.So some credit is obviously due to her.
                                     We seldom remember to be within our limits when we are having fun with friends or very near and dear ones though it should not be the case.We may never know that in our ignorance we are hurting him or her.It is very obvious that we tease or crack silly jokes at our buddies who are very close to us.However at the same time we should not be oblivious of the reaction put forward by the beholder.It may so happen that sometimes if we are not careful,a mere comment which may seem utterly petty to us may give rise to a big quarrel.It may even result in snapping of a beautiful relation forever.Im not telling you people to compromise or display any unnecessary emotion.But we should keep in my mind that we might be making friends with many but a strong alliance is always hard to come by.It requires a lot of understanding because the human soul is always very delicate no matter how tough it appears to be.It always craves for love and attention.Self-respect is always important though most of the time we tend to forget about it because an outburst of impulse takes command of us which we are not aware of ourselves.Tactless speeches may oftenturn out to be a boomerang and heavily create an impact of our character in front of others.Essentially from the perspective of today's world,chances of forgiveness are very low.
                                     I would not elaborate my opinion further else it would be an immensely boring blog to get through.I would only like to say that it is impossible to make everyone happy but if we are a bit cautious in passing remarks,not only it hinders the opportunity of uselessly creating a scene but also fosters a beautiful atmosphere of cooperativeness and mutual exchange.